- advice to those who are engaged
- September 17th, 12:38
If you haven't already, I strongly recommend the two of you sleep together for a night or two in the bed you intend on sharing after you get married. I'm not saying you should have sex. That is entirely up to you but I do think you need to find out if you are comfortable and can sleep well. After you marry, you are going to be spending at least one-third of your life in that bed. You have to have a good night's rest if you are going to function. You can, and most likely will, have sex most anywhere in your house or apartment but you will be sleeping in your bed.
The first major purchase Carson and I made was a new bed and bedding. We found that my old bedding was ok for sex but we were not sleeping well at all. Both of us were going to work like zombies each day so about a month after we married, we bought a new (larger) bed and bedding.